Q: There are countless numbers between 0 and 1, countless shades of gray between black and white. With cross combinations, there are endless possibilities. You can’t say you’ve tried everything just because you’ve tried two opposite approaches. \n\nA: Well said.

A: To be honest, telling depressed people “it’s not your fault, it’s the world’s fault” is a moral issue.

A: I’ve written so many passages, yet some people are beyond persuasion. In short, they listen to whoever speaks nicely, listen to whoever says the mistake is not yours, listen to whoever helps me curse my parents, the government, teachers, schools.

As a depressed person, the only thing you really need to think about is “where did I go wrong”.

If you still think you did everything right and the whole world has wronged you, then your depression will only get worse.

A: Asking you to admit your mistakes doesn’t mean “giving yourself a demeaning label”, it doesn’t mean describing yourself as worse than a pig or dog.

Characterizing everyone who teaches you to admit mistakes as “forcing me to degrade myself”, then who are you trying to “get revenge” on?

The only form of admitting mistakes is “if I could do it again, what could I have done differently, and why might that lead to different results”, it is [finding this new approach] and [discussing this new approach as much as possible].

Stop saying “I’ve tried everything, you are unsatisfied no matter what”.

You haven’t “tried everything” at all with your level. You don’t even have the ability to “try everything” -

Do you really have the capacity to exhaust all possible approaches?

What would you say if someone proposed an approach you haven’t tried?

In your twenties, knowing nothing, if you failed, what’s more likely - it’s your fault, or the entire world’s fault?

Can you be objective?


Q: I still don’t understand, could you explain in more detail, I’m too stupid.

A: It’s peddling “your depression is because the world is wrong” to a bunch of twenty-somethings. Frankly, it’s dealing drugs, ruining lives.


Q: There are countless numbers between 0 and 1, countless shades of gray between black and white. With cross combinations, there are endless possibilities. You can’t say you’ve tried everything just because you’ve tried two opposite approaches.

A: Well said.