Emotion Management

If we should “Ignore the attention of others’ thoughts”, then, why should we seek others’ approval and praise? SoySauceNoodles Many people misunderstand the value of praise, believing that another person’s praise is a validation of their honor, and consequently, a proof of their life’s worth. This is utterly incorrect. Zhou Gong feared slander yet does that diminish his worth? When Wang Mang honored the learned and the humble, did their status really elevate? Pursuing human praise and critici ...

Night Demon How do you view the incident where a 21-year-old man from Hunan, nicknamed Fat Cat, spent 510,000 yuan of his earnings on Pick Up Artist (PUA) tactics, only to commit suicide by jumping into a river in Chongqing after the failure? In a world where social attention often gravitates not towards justice but towards exploiting the vulnerabilities of the weak, the narrative that unfolds after a tragedy is all too predictable. When a catastrophe occurs, the full weight of blame seldom fa ...

Beyond Crisis The sense of “crisis” should not be the main driver for personal endeavors, thus there’s no necessity to continuously “cultivate a sense of crisis.” Of course, the ability to foresee and get rid of crisis needs cultivation - if a crisis arises, it must be addressed. But ordinarily, if we define crisis as a “threat predicted to affect the basic quality of one’s life within their natural lifespan,” this should not be a goal that demands your “lifelong struggle.” Instead, it should be ...

What books should elementary school students read when transitioning from children's books to classics? How should children at this stage "read" classics?

If you can't understand simple tasks like sweeping the floor or serving tea without burning your hand, how could you be trusted with legal responsibilities?

What do you call the doctor who graduated last in his class?

I feel that my past self was very unworthy, disgusting, and foolishly frivolous. I wasted a lot of time, and I feel inferior and self-loathing. How can I let go of this?

To put it this way, whoever becomes cynical and full of resentment, your best choice is to stay away from them. This does not affect the contractual relationship of survival - for example, if you owe someone debt, you still have to pay it back, and it’s even better to pay it back quickly. Existing contracts must also be executed, and even more strictly enforced. However, this relationship must be pulled apart. Don’t have any entanglement because of friendship or sympathy. If you are in distress ...

Never hit a blind person Someone asked, “How to fight back against the people who sarcastic you?” Let’s think about it, if a blind person runs into you, would you beat he/she up? So, the thing you should do is to re-signal to make sure that the person is indeed “blind”. If you find out that the person is indeed “blind”, you will naturally have no idea of “fighting back”. You should consider the fact that he or she must lead a very difficult life if they find it difficult to get along with someo ...

Anger Management First, live among people who love you, so that the consequences of your anger will often be naturally dissipated. It is not just a matter of being useless and harmful to not be angry with someone who is unloving to you. The most important thing is that loveless people do not deserve it. Second, don’t look at getting angry as a sign of justice. Don’t feel that because you are all riled up and you must be on the side of justice - this is also the fundamental reason why countless ...