Relationships in family, society

If we should “Ignore the attention of others’ thoughts”, then, why should we seek others’ approval and praise? SoySauceNoodles Many people misunderstand the value of praise, believing that another person’s praise is a validation of their honor, and consequently, a proof of their life’s worth. This is utterly incorrect. Zhou Gong feared slander yet does that diminish his worth? When Wang Mang honored the learned and the humble, did their status really elevate? Pursuing human praise and critici ...

Night Demon How do you view the incident where a 21-year-old man from Hunan, nicknamed Fat Cat, spent 510,000 yuan of his earnings on Pick Up Artist (PUA) tactics, only to commit suicide by jumping into a river in Chongqing after the failure? In a world where social attention often gravitates not towards justice but towards exploiting the vulnerabilities of the weak, the narrative that unfolds after a tragedy is all too predictable. When a catastrophe occurs, the full weight of blame seldom fa ...

Why did my daughter have such a strong reaction? My daughter is a senior in high school, and she has been at home resting due to an illness. This afternoon, we were discussing what to have for lunch when she mentioned that she was tired of takeout and wanted home-cooked food. She then paused and, expressing her hunger, suggested settling for instant noodles as she couldn’t wait. I agreed to prepare the noodles. Believing that boiled noodles would be healthier and I could add an egg, I took the ...

The recent use of AI by music producer Bao Xiaobo to create a digital replica of his late daughter raises a critical question: what ethical considerations surround this emerging technology?

True connection is built on mutual respect and appreciation for each other's complexities. Without that foundation, the "relationship" might have been an illusion, never truly taking root.

What books should elementary school students read when transitioning from children's books to classics? How should children at this stage "read" classics?

If you can't understand simple tasks like sweeping the floor or serving tea without burning your hand, how could you be trusted with legal responsibilities?

Don't use homework as an excuse - everyone needs to learn empathy, tolerance and understanding through work and service to others.

The company has no right to reject the employee's leave decision, and can only stipulate the necessary leave procedures

Instead of engaging in a futile tug-of-war, the younger generation should seek collaboration and mutual respect with their elders.

Learning art is about cultivating one's artistic cultivation and gaining deep insights into the two topics of quality and humanity

Refusing this obligation is an unspoken act of wastefulness and a sign of lack of family education in China. It means that your parents have not properly passed on the cultural connotation and necessary living skills of being a Chinese to you.

Good deeds should be done as anonymously as possible, especially with regard to people around you.

this is essentially like thinking about whether you want the sun to be bigger or smaller, and then seriously analyzing the benefits of making it bigger or smaller.

Q: I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years. We are both in school and plan to get married after graduation. But recently, he told me that he has a genetic disease (polycystic kidney disease). His mother and several of his aunts have it. My parents know about this disease, and my father is strongly opposed to our marriage. My mother is not as opposed, but I am still not sure if I should continue the relationship. A: Finding Love Again After a Breakup: A Personal Story In general, I would recom ...

Q: "To love only the humanity and not the specifics. Be cautious of becoming such a person. "How to understand this phenomenon? A: Is Karl Marx more inclined to love the abstract or the concrete? Shouldn’t he stop fussing about ‘Capital’ and manifestos and just work more and buy flowers for Jenny? Shouldn’t Yu the Great spend less time on flood control and more time with his children? Everyone has their own talents, circumstances, and desires; how can one be forced to be the same? So ...

Bringing young children into environments with rules of order that they cannot comprehend or abide by is inherently mistaken.

I was born in a rural area of China. Currently, I work at a university in Beijing. I thought that my elderly parents have never visited Beijing, so I invited them to come over during the summer break. The trip lasted six days and five nights. On the first afternoon, we arrived in Beijing and had dinner together. On the second day, we visited the Forbidden City and Jingshan Park. On the third day, we visited Tiananmen Square and handled some personal matters, and then stayed at the Great Wall at ...

To avoid the high risks of creating a large company group chat without a full ban on speaking, let’s discuss designating volunteers. When a difficult task arises that requires someone to accept an unconventional and non-routine responsibility, broadcasting the call for volunteers is an efficient way to recruit volunteers. However, when making such a broadcast, pay attention to the following: Clearly explain the problem, including its difficulty and risk. This is not only a matter of respecting ...

Important note before proceeding If you have to ask this question, then your abilities and experiences are not enough to effectively handle the challenges you will face in maintaining an intimate relationship with this girl. Most people think that “having a plan first is the only way for me to make a decision.” Therefore, they keep searching and considering various plans before making a decision. This may seem natural and reasonable, but it leads to a difficulty: if the matter is even slightly c ...

Just wait for us, maybe a few years later. Just take a walk around to get familiar to there, for us.

How to Be a Parent, Not a Friend Your children’s friends may be more numerous and eligible than you are, but they lack parents, not friends. If you try to be their friend, who will be their parent? Who will tell them “no”? Who will send them to bed? Who will attend parent-teacher conferences to hear about the importance of parental cooperation? Who will pay for the neighbor’s broken window or their classmate’s broken glasses? Life is like chess: the rooks, knights, bishops, and pawns must all be ...